Who is this girl? I wish I could go back to 1997 and meet her in San Francisco. If I could, I'd ask her so many questions because she is an utter mystery to me. I'd like to know how she is so strong and confident and self-assured at 25 years old. I'd ask her how it is that she's been through so much already but somehow remains positive, optimistic and unstoppable. I'd ask her what is your WHY? What drives you pre-home, husband and kid? Is it ever hard to keep moving and working and doing life alone in the big city with a smile on your face? That I bet would make her laugh and smile even bigger. I'd like to know how she can be so tough and fearless and ask where does that come from, can I borrow some of that from her from time to time, if just for a short while. I'd also like to hug her and tell her I'm proud of her and how hard she is working, and that while there will be much work ahead, it will be rewarding, and she can and will get it done and beautifully, but I'd encourage her to shake that pleaser gene earlier, if at all possible. Stop worrying about making everyone happy, it's impossible. Just please yourself and everything else will follow. I'd tell her to brace for more heartbreak but promise that it will all be worth it someday. The best is yet to come, I'd tell her. And without sharing too much, I'd then fortune-tell, just a bit. You'll be your own boss for most of your career. You'll find a husband who will know and care for you better than any one else, and together, you will have a wonderful kid. There's so much fun and adventure in store, just keep moving, just keep smiling, and follow your intuition, but be patient. You will find your place and create a beautiful life together. Just you wait and see.
